Who do you want to be?
Hi, I’m Erin.
If you’re looking for a wig-wearing life coach who understands both self-flagellation and self-acceptance, well, you’re in the right place. For years (decades even!) I lived like so many: rejecting and running away from myself and my true desires, in both obvious and subtle ways. It wasn’t until I decided to have a kid that I started digging into what really lights me up.
When I stopped hiding, a whole other world of possibilities became available.
It started with the good ol’ post-partum shed after my son was born, worsening my already very thin hair, deciding to (finally!) explore wigs, being amazed (and also overwhelmed!) with the options, looking better than ever but feeling crazy cognitive dissonance (I mean, that’s not really ME! Can’t you see that?!), which led to me taking a good look at the thoughts in my brain, with the help of life coaching.
I was able to change my outside appearance in an instant, but it took some time for my insides to catch up.
Learning to coach—and accept—myself changed so much, inside and out, that I decided to get certified and help you create a different experience of, and for, yourself.
Everything you want is on the other side of a decision.
What do you want to do, to look like, to be? Do you think you have a choice? What’s holding you back? Do you make time to ask yourself these kinds of questions?
We all want something, and we usually want that something because of the way we think we’ll feel when we get it. We can decide who we want to be, and we can decide how to feel on purpose. (And spoiler alert: feeling good all the time is not the point, or the goal.)
Learning to accept ourselves as we move toward what we want is work worth doing.
This is especially true when changes happen to us, since they’re usually not ones we’d choose. I didn’t choose to have thinning hair, but I did decide how to respond to it. (After lots of denial, rejection, hiding and shame, of course. What life would be complete without all those things? No human life, that’s for sure!)
Through coaching, I’ve been able to accept and alter my experience—of hair loss, of work, of parenting, of loving (myself and others), of so-called “negative” emotions—so I’m much better equipped to go after things I really, genuinely want.
Now, tell me…what do you want?
Let’s work together!
Book 4 sessions over 4 weeks, for just $40 a pop. That’s a damn good deal, if I do say so myself… Fill out the form below and I’ll be in touch!
